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Last year Flavio, my youngest child, decided to leave our home and live his dreams by going to Illinois State University. As a mom, I had so many worries. I felt like Flavio was not ready to be independent, to take care of himself, to survive without a close family!
I cried a lot and then realized that I was the one who was not ready to let him go! I decided to have talks with him about the multitude of risks and opportunities while living on campus. One of the things I focused on the most during our conversations was the importance of taking care of himself; looking for support when he needed to, but most importantly was to look for positive friends. This was one of my main concerns because I knew that having friends would help him buffer from stress and social isolation and loneliness.
Flavio had the opportunity to choose his roommate and he was very excited to have him as a friend, however, his roommate was interested in other things and had different ideas on how to have fun on campus. Flavio did not feel comfortable with this.The process of making friends with the mantis
Flavio was greeting everyone, and it seemed to me like they were treating each other like a family. I was happy to know that he was respected and loved on his floor.
I kept asking to meet his close friends and he always said that he did not have any close friends. I was visiting him very often so he would not feel disconnected from his family, until one day he told me that he would be busy during the weekend due to a DND game where he was a new member.
I was so happy to know that he finally found friends that shared the same hobbies he did. He was also invited to be part of an intramural soccer team and had the opportunity to meet more people. At the end of the school year, Flavio called me to ask if I could bake some granola for his friends before they were leaving for summer break.
I said, Making friends haciendo amigos course, thinking that It would be two or three at most. When I asked Flavio how many jars of granola I needed to bake, he started counting them by name and the more friends he was naming, the more terrified I was, just thinking about being in the kitchen baking all day! Flavio showed his gratitude to each one of them by writing a personal message. Here are some of them:. I was super surprised to when I first heard that you attend ISU. I can relax and know that if I am ever struggling with something, I can come to you to talk about it.
You were the candle that lit my path towards an uncertain period of my life. I think you already know that by now. Creo que ya lo sabes. I really appreciate the energy you bring to every conversation. Recuerdo decirte que realmente no me gusta hablar.
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